A New York Times bestseller and #1 in Marriage, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman and Nan Silver offers couples a groundbreaking, research-based roadmap to creating and maintaining a fulfilling, long-lasting relationship. Drawing from decades of observing real couples over time, Gottman identifies the habits and behaviors that predict marital success—or failure.
The book presents seven fundamental principles that guide partners toward greater intimacy, understanding, and collaboration. These principles are designed to help couples:
- Resolve conflicts constructively, even in challenging areas such as money, sex, family, and religion
- Foster deeper emotional connection and mutual respect
- Build shared meaning and strengthen friendship within the marriage
- Recognize and counteract destructive patterns before they escalate
Filled with practical exercises, real-life examples, and insights from the Gottman Institute, this revised edition offers tools for couples at any stage—from newlyweds to long-term partners—to repair, enrich, and future-proof their relationships. Clear, actionable, and rooted in scientific research, the book empowers couples to create a resilient, emotionally intelligent, and deeply satisfying marriage.
Whether you are looking to strengthen your current relationship, resolve recurring issues, or prevent conflict from undermining your partnership, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work provides the knowledge and strategies to achieve your relationship’s highest potential.
Authors: John Gottman, PhD & Nan Silver
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